Wednesday, December 1, 2010

How to Become a Happy Single

Instructions
Difficulty: Challenging
Things You’ll Need: From nothing to anything

Step1
Give yourself sometimes to feel sad but then understand that being single is not the end of the world, a disease, or whatever bad opinions people often say about being single, as long as you know how to enjoy it. Better be a happy single, rather than stuck in a bad relationship.

Step2
Take your time to shop around. Remember, you're not the only single around. How 'bout hangout with friends or other singles around? That way, at least you can have someone to talk to or laugh with, while increasing your chance to be in (this time) a great relationship.

Step3
Give your most angelic smile to people who try to put you down just because you're a single, then tell them nicely, "How 'bout shut your mouth up if you've got no other way to help...." Then give them another big smile. You've got the right to be happy, and of course the right to stand up for your right.

Step4
Sometimes you might feel sad again. Accept that as something normal. Then consider: Do you want to be like this forever? If the answer is "Yes" then give yourself another time to be sad but with a tight deadline. Continue to the next step if your answer is "No".

Step5
While searching for the best option around, tell yourself that you have the right to be happy. Do anything to make yourself happy, not just by following whatever people tell you to make them happy & make sure that you won't regret it latter. You are you. So, I'm sure it was you who know how to make your self happy.

Step6
The point is, consider anything you really need, then do everything you also need to do to make it true, and make your happiness as a priority. Some times you might be tempted to something you want, but not exactly what you need. Just remember, whatever instant, easy & fun are not always the best choice there is.

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